You may
encounter hurdles along your way but definitely you will surpass it but when it
comes to arguments it’s totally different simply because it involves another
person in which you do not know if you will win over a certain argument.
In reality,
when you ever encounter an argument there will come a point that you just
cannot control yourself and eventually will lose your temper. Here are some
reasons why you should not engage to an argument and certainly will enhance
your personality.
Spiritual Growth
Just come to
think of it, whenever someone triggers you to fight back, always remember that
it’s not your loss even if you chose to keep quiet and never give them a hint
that you are offended because honestly speaking, God knows you are not doing
anything that can harm that person and you know yourself more than anyone else
in this world. Hold your breath and remind yourself it’s not worth your time
and patience if you will just remain calm and let the anger of that person
released.
Emotional Growth
You are the
only one accountable for every emotion you feel each and every day so might as
well ignore them and do not absorb the negative vibes in your surroundings. Start
your day with a positive attitude that no one can get in your way and obliterate
a good day you have started. Be a good example to those people who are busy and
do not have time to pamper themselves and you’ll see it’s more practical to
gain more loyal friends because you are one of the people they chose to see,
giving them an inviting and motivational energy.
Preventing a commotion
Can you
consider yourself as a matured person when the only thing that goes into your
mind is to fight back to a person that has the only thing in mind: To trigger
you most, to the extent that other people who are looking up to you will be
disappointed because you did not let the commotion to slipped away?
Limiting your networks
In our lives,
we cannot stand alone especially when life crisis begins and you feel
everything is falling apart? The moment you start to response to an argument
and you just keep the conflict arises in ways you never imagined, you will
notice as the time goes by you are losing your networks or we call “friends”. Admit
it or not, not all in your circle of friends will agree with you, others may
stand against your decision or you just don’t fit on the same page together.
Sooner or later, regret will knock on your door
In the long
run, you regret why you did response to an argument that not even worth of your
time. As long as you can prolong your temper do it, sometimes it takes a mature
person to overcome an argument, let it passed away and forgive.
Be humble, stay
kind and laugh more often.
