Why you should not engage to an argument

You may encounter hurdles along your way but definitely you will surpass it but when it comes to arguments it’s totally different simply because it involves another person in which you do not know if you will win over a certain argument.

In reality, when you ever encounter an argument there will come a point that you just cannot control yourself and eventually will lose your temper. Here are some reasons why you should not engage to an argument and certainly will enhance your personality.

Spiritual Growth

Just come to think of it, whenever someone triggers you to fight back, always remember that it’s not your loss even if you chose to keep quiet and never give them a hint that you are offended because honestly speaking, God knows you are not doing anything that can harm that person and you know yourself more than anyone else in this world. Hold your breath and remind yourself it’s not worth your time and patience if you will just remain calm and let the anger of that person released.

Emotional Growth

You are the only one accountable for every emotion you feel each and every day so might as well ignore them and do not absorb the negative vibes in your surroundings. Start your day with a positive attitude that no one can get in your way and obliterate a good day you have started. Be a good example to those people who are busy and do not have time to pamper themselves and you’ll see it’s more practical to gain more loyal friends because you are one of the people they chose to see, giving them an inviting and motivational energy.

Preventing a commotion

Can you consider yourself as a matured person when the only thing that goes into your mind is to fight back to a person that has the only thing in mind: To trigger you most, to the extent that other people who are looking up to you will be disappointed because you did not let the commotion to slipped away?

Limiting your networks

In our lives, we cannot stand alone especially when life crisis begins and you feel everything is falling apart? The moment you start to response to an argument and you just keep the conflict arises in ways you never imagined, you will notice as the time goes by you are losing your networks or we call “friends”. Admit it or not, not all in your circle of friends will agree with you, others may stand against your decision or you just don’t fit on the same page together.

Sooner or later, regret will knock on your door

In the long run, you regret why you did response to an argument that not even worth of your time. As long as you can prolong your temper do it, sometimes it takes a mature person to overcome an argument, let it passed away and forgive. 

Be humble, stay kind and laugh more often.